Are you looking to improve your relationship? Have better communication? More intimacy? Resolve conflicts easier? Or perhaps you are preparing for marriage and want to start it off on the right foot?
Strong and healthy relationships are based on good communication, trust and aligned values. These are all things that occur at an unconscious level and many people don't know how to change these things. At Results over Reasons, our master coaches have advanced training in communication and how the mind works. This allows us to help our clients bridge gaps in their communication, values, and trust.
For example, a great tool we use to help couples is a perceptual position tool where we change positions to get a perspective on how the other person received our message. It helps to explain why someone doesn't respond the way we expect and how we can modify our communication to get a better response next time.
Many couple have issues based at a core deeper level associated with their individual values. If their values are not in alignment with each other, it causes tremendous discourse in decision making and communication. Through a values alignment process, we can get couples back on the same road together.
Then there may be issues with basic trust and communication. Again, these take place at an unconscious level. We teach people in general how to rapidly and easily build trust with anyone they are communicating with. This is much more important when we are talking about two people living under the same roof and trying to build a life together. The tools are the same. The emphasis on the tools may be slightly different to account for building a stronger more intimate bond between two people in a committed relationship.
All of our coaching involves "homework" per se. This tasking is used to help guide people down a path of self-learning and ensure both parties are actively taking the information and tools back into their daily lives to get immediate results.
We normally will start with a 2-hour initial consultation where we gathered a detailed personal history to identify the issues and patterns that have led up to this point. From there, we will put together a plan of what tools, activities, or processes may be needed to help our clients move to the relationship they always wanted. These sessions can be either in person or via the internet based on your location and preferences. Call (702)L1V-MORE to schedule a free 30-minute consultation with a Master Coach today and find out how couples coaching can help you TODAY.
